What do your elevator habits say about you as a person? Well, for starters, they show how you value common courtesy, according to VegOut. If you’re waiting patiently for the elevator to begin its ascent/descent and see someone heading your way, do you press the “Open Door” button or let the doors swiftly close? Those who commonly choose the first option show their willingness to prioritize consideration for others over their own minor inconvenience. Pressing that button also indicates to others that you’re comfortable taking on brief leadership. Elevator riders who aren’t afraid to make the move, despite other passengers’ silent stares as they wait for the journey to begin, display their ability to resist the bystander effect and act, according to VegOut.
Holding the elevator for someone, no matter how far down the hall they are, can feel inconsequential. Yet, no action comes without reaction. People who consistently decide to make kind gestures understand, either consciously or subconsciously, the ripple effects of kindness. On the other hand, they may be aware that even the smallest consistent actions add up to their reputation. However, for some, holding the door is simply an intuitive habit that calls upon their emotional intelligence.
Being able to tune in to the emotional cues of people around you is a sign of emotional intelligence — what psychologists like Dr. Daniel Goleman say is made up of “self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy and social skills.” These cognitive tools make a person acutely aware of how people are feeling without needing to be told and lead many to act on those observations, like holding the elevator for someone in a rush. But, ultimately, holding the elevator door is a small, but telling, act of kindness. While we all might hope to be that shining star of an officemate or neighbor who automatically holds a door for another, there will be times when you just want to get to your destination. Odds are your fellow passengers will not fault you for choosing convenience over altruism, but can you say the same about yourself?
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